Why Community Building is a Holiday Must

The holiday season can feel like a never-ending to-do list of family gatherings, gift shopping, and extravagant feasts. Between wrapping up work projects and making sure my six kiddos don’t lose their minds, it’s easy to get lost in the hustle and bustle. But I’ve come to realize that making community building a priority is not just important – it’s essential, especially during this merry (and sometimes chaotic) time of year.

As I juggle the demands of marriage, parenting, running a household, and trying not to lose my sanity, the power of community shines through, brightening our holiday season like a string of twinkling lights on a frosty night. Here’s how embracing a sense of community can elevate our holidays and ensure we’re activated to lend a helping hand:

1. Shared Burdens, Shared Joys

When you have people to lean on, the weight of holiday responsibilities feels lighter. I’ve learned that reaching out can turn what feels like an overwhelming marathon of tasks into a fun relay race. Whether it’s swapping cookie recipes with my neighbor or coordinating carpooling kids for holiday events, community creates these triumphant moments where burdens become shared joys. Plus, who doesn't love a good cookie exchange?

2. Inspiration is Just a Coffee Date (Or Drink) Away

Sometimes, all it takes is a hot cup of tea (or, let’s be real – a glamorous Crown and Coca Cola) with a fellow mom friend or your man to spark a whole new holiday initiative! Frustrated by the insane amount of mismatched socks we had lying around the house, our bonding time blossomed into my husband creating an inaugural Sock Drive event/initiative with his fraternity. They ended up collecting over 1,400 socks, and we bonded as we shared laughs, ideas, and a sense of purpose in giving back.

3. Creating Lasting Memories

The holiday season is all about creating memories, and what better way than to involve your local community? From volunteering at shelters to participating in local holiday markets, engaging with others can craft stories that your kids will talk about long after the decorations are put away. Not to mention, it sets a great example for them about the importance of giving back and nurturing relationships.

4. Celebrating Uniqueness

Every family brings something unique to the table, and the holidays are the perfect time to celebrate those differences. Gatherings with diverse friends can introduce new customs, dishes, and even traditions that enrich our holiday experiences. We love going to our friends’ annual Christmas party. The Christmas tree ornament swap is a hoot!

5. A Network for Support

Let’s face it: sometimes the holiday season magnifies our stress. But having a support network of fellow parents can be a game-changer. When things feel overwhelming, it’s reassuring to know you can reach out for help. Whether it’s finding last-minute babysitters or organizing a “mom’s night out,” having a community allows us to take a breath and recharge. We can’t pour from an empty cup, after all!

As we sweep into the holiday season, remember to embrace your community – that wonderful web of connections that makes life a little sweeter. Let’s be activated to assist each other, share the love, and create a tapestry of festive moments that can be cherished for years to come. So, grab that scarf, hot cocoa, and rally your crew. Together, let’s make this holiday season not just about the gifts but about the heartfelt connections that truly matter. Happy Holidays! 🌟